- Competition
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zombieoreilly
- May 19th, 2009
When did being competitive become an insult in regards to gaming? I'm sick of certain friends of mine bitching and moaning about how when it comes to I take it too seriously. I don't bitch, cry, and moan when I'm loosing. I lost eight straight games of Uno tonight, and you know what? Who cares.
But you better believe I'm gonna call you on rules (hey, I'm cool with reminding you and leaving it be, no "take-backs" or any of that crap. I just think you ought to know..)and if I have a question about the rules or a variant rule or some such issue, I'm gonna ask it. Because I expect everyone to know the rules of whatever game we're playing, and if they don't I would want *them* to ask.
But don't bitch when I start to plot against your ass when you are winning. I don't care if I ask the other players at the table if they have a "reverse" or a "skip". If it means prolonging the game and giving me a better advantage, I'm gonna do it.
I'm going to do my best to win every fucking game I play. Doesn't matter which one. Doesn't mean I'm an asshole about it. I try to be polite, refrain from making a big deal about things, and even let blatant rules violations go (hey sometimes people forget rules, no big deal). But when I sit down across from you, I'm not going to pull punches.
For me the fun in playing a game is attempting to win it. Key word "attempting". Now, I'll be the first to admit, that if there is something about a game I don't like, I'll speak up. If there is game mechanic I think is bullshit, I'll point it out. I'm entitled to my opinion. You're entitled to yours. I hear certain people bitch all the time about games I enjoy, pointing out their "flaws" and whatnot. When you say you didn't like Bioshock, I had to admit my jaw dropped. Got rated 9/10 on game informer, made the best selling list several months in a row, and I personally loved it to death. But hey, you're entitled to your opinion. I was cool with that.
I expect the same courtesy. I am more than willing to "agree to disagree" about gaming opinions or mechanic specifics, but don't look down your noses at me and call me a sore loser or accuse me of being "competetive". Damn right I'm fucking competetive. This is a game, right? Otherwise, why don't I just dump the monopoly box upside down and call it a day.
I dunno, just getting sick of taking shit from my gaming group about that kind of crap. I think I need to stick to co-op games for a while, cuz I'm sick of everyone bitching.